Lift

I take most of my life metaphors from aviation. There's something about leaving the comfort of the ground that so describes the joys and sorrows of life. All the "white-knuckled flights" of our lives build character, and any landing you walk away from is a good one. There's no substitute for experience. You get scared later, and you have to plan to succeed. Booze rarely helps, and while courage is a plus, macho=stupid. Ask for help. Trust your gut. Remember to thank those who help you along the way. A little prudence goes a long way, but if you want to leave the ground, you have to fly!